Something's Afoot

In the last two weeks four single women have asked me for advice about getting the men in their lives to take initiative. And that doesn't include all the email that's pouring into Boundless.org about the same problem. As women, it's easy to think we must not be giving theses guys enough hints about our interest in them. But maybe we're giving too many. Suzanne Hadley's article "Not Your Buddy" is the best I've seen about what's really going on in the mind of men who seem to be stuck on pause.